Twenty-Five Years Later: The Greatest Tribute to 9/11 Is How We Care for Today’s Protectors

Statement of Record

Twenty-five years after September 11, 2001, the responsibility to remember has not diminished—and neither has our responsibility to those who protect us.

I will never forget standing atop my office building in Hackensack, New Jersey, watching the Twin Towers burn. The sight was heartbreaking and almost impossible to comprehend. From that distance, I could only imagine what the people inside those buildings were experiencing as they desperately tried to escape. And as I watched the smoke rise over lower Manhattan, I found myself praying for the first responders I knew would be heading toward the site, despite the unimaginable danger. They were going in while others were trying to get out.

That memory remains with me. So does the realization that September 11 was never simply an event that happened to America. It happened to people—to families, communities, colleagues and friends—and it forever changed the lives of those who survived and those who were left behind. Among those who answered the call were NYPD officers, FDNY firefighters, EMS personnel, Port Authority Police officers, and countless other first responders who ran toward the danger, placing their own lives between those in peril and the people they were sworn to protect.

My work in the years since has brought me throughout America and, increasingly, alongside the NYPD. As the Department’s Honorary Law Enforcement Motivational Speaker, I have had the privilege of standing with officers and leaders across New York City, speaking about ethical leadership, morale, emotional fortitude and suicide prevention. I have also had selected opportunities to extend these principles to the FDNY through visits to firehouses and work with FDNY Peer Support professionals.

Those experiences have reinforced a conviction that has become central to my work: protecting the public requires us to protect the people who have accepted the responsibility of protecting the public.

That is why Never Forget must mean more than remembering a terrible morning. It must mean remembering the human beings who were lost, honoring the families who have carried their absence, and recognizing the men and women who continue to carry the responsibility of protecting others.

The greatest tribute to those who gave their lives is to ensure that those who serve today never have to carry the burdens of service alone.

The Memory America Carries

For those who lived through September 11, the memories have never belonged solely to that morning. They became part of the years that followed, carried into families, workplaces, firehouses, precincts and communities. For some, the loss was immediate and intimate. For others, it was the loss of a colleague, a neighbor or a friend—or someone whose name would become permanently associated with a day that changed the nation.

Twenty-five years later, that personal dimension still matters.

There are police officers and firefighters serving today who were not yet born when the World Trade Center was attacked. Some were children too young to understand what they were seeing. Others learned about September 11 through their parents, through photographs and stories, or through the memories of those who had been there. Yet they entered professions profoundly shaped by that day, inheriting not only its history but also a responsibility to understand what it meant to those who came before them.

For the men and women of the NYPD, FDNY, Port Authority Police Department, EMS and the many other agencies and professions that responded, September 11 revealed the most demanding meaning of public service. While others were trying to escape the danger, first responders were moving toward it. They climbed stairways while others descended. They entered buildings from which many would never return. They searched, rescued, carried, treated and comforted, often without knowing whether the next moment would be their last.

Among those who perished were 343 FDNY firefighters, NYPD officers, Port Authority Police officers, EMS professionals and other first responders who answered the call. Their sacrifice cannot be reduced to the numbers remembered at ceremonies each September. Behind every name was a human being whose absence changed a family forever.

There were spouses who suddenly had to raise children alone. Sons and daughters grew up knowing a parent primarily through photographs, stories and the memories of others. Parents lost children, brothers and sisters lost siblings, and colleagues returned to work knowing that familiar voices and faces would no longer come through the door. Communities, too, lost people who had been woven into the ordinary fabric of their lives.

That is why September 11 must remain personal, even for those who were not yet alive when it happened. Those who died were not distant figures in a historical event. They were us. They belonged to the communities they served. They sat beside us at work, lived beside us at home, raised families, coached children, worshipped in our churches and synagogues, shopped in our neighborhoods and answered calls when someone needed help.

Most importantly, many were protectors. They had accepted a responsibility that asks something extraordinary of an ordinary human being: when danger comes, move toward it while others move away.

That responsibility did not end on September 11, 2001. It was inherited by the next generation.

Today, when a young police officer puts on the uniform, walks into a precinct and begins a tour, or when a firefighter enters a firehouse and prepares for the next alarm, that officer or firefighter becomes part of a profession carrying memories that began long before his or her career. The names of the fallen remain on memorials, but their legacy also lives in the people who continue to answer the call.

This is where remembrance acquires a responsibility of its own. If we truly mean Never Forget, remembering those who gave everything must also lead us to ask what we are doing for the men and women who continue to stand between danger and the people they protect.

That question is no less important than the remembrance itself.

The Responsibility We Carry Forward

The officers and firefighters serving today did not choose the history they inherited. Many entered their professions years after September 11, yet they stepped into institutions forever marked by the courage and loss of that day. They inherited a standard of service forged under circumstances most of us hope never to witness again: when people were in danger, protectors moved toward them.

The circumstances are different now, the threats have changed and the demands placed upon law enforcement and the fire service continue to evolve. But the human being beneath the uniform has not changed. Every officer and firefighter still carries the capacity for courage, fear, grief, exhaustion, hope and renewal.

That reality places a particular responsibility on those entrusted with leadership. People who repeatedly place themselves in harm’s way cannot be sustained indefinitely by being told simply to endure. They need to know that their service matters, that their sacrifices are recognized and that their organization will stand with them when the burden becomes heavy. They also need to know that acknowledging fear, grief or vulnerability does not diminish the courage that brought them into the profession.

Emotional fortitude is not the absence of those experiences. It is the capacity to confront them without surrendering to them—to process what has happened, draw upon the strength of others and continue forward. Sometimes the most important act of protection occurs far from the scene of an emergency: a colleague notices that something has changed; a supervisor takes the time to listen; an organization treats a person’s struggle as a matter of human dignity rather than weakness; someone has the courage to intervene before a crisis becomes irreversible.

This is where suicide prevention becomes inseparable from the meaning of Never Forget. If we remember those who died protecting others but fail to recognize protectors who are struggling today, our remembrance remains incomplete.

The obligation of the present generation extends beyond preserving the memory of September 11. It is to build a culture worthy of that memory—a culture in which ethical leadership, strong morale, emotional fortitude and suicide prevention are not separate initiatives, but expressions of the same responsibility: protecting those who protect us.

That is how a legacy remains alive—not simply in the names engraved in stone, but in the way we lead, support and care for the living.

The Torch We Carry Forward

Perhaps the most unexpected lesson in remembrance can be found through the eyes of a child.

My grandson loves firetrucks. When one passes by, he points toward it with the excitement only a child can express. He has a favorite firetruck toy and even a favorite shirt bearing the NYPD insignia. He does not understand September 11. He cannot comprehend what happened at the World Trade Center or know the names of the firefighters and police officers who gave their lives that day.

But he understands something essential: he sees people who protect others.

That understanding came alive for me during a visit to FDNY Ladder 4, “The Pride of Midtown.” My wife, my son, my daughter-in-law and I had the privilege of bringing him into the firehouse and introducing him to the firefighters. I remember the pride I felt watching him meet these men and seeing the way they welcomed him—and all of us—with such warmth and respect.

They took the time to make the visit special. They welcomed him into their world, held him for photographs and allowed our family to share a moment that became a treasured memory.

For me, however, the moment carried a deeper meaning.

Engine 54, Ladder 4 and Battalion 9 are known as the Pride of Midtown, and the companies suffered extraordinary losses on September 11. Standing there with my grandson, I could not help but think about the connection between those who answered the call that morning and the firefighters now carrying their tradition forward.

These were a new generation of protectors. They had not served on September 11, 2001, and many were not yet in the profession when it happened. Yet they had chosen the same demanding vocation of service, entering a tradition shaped by extraordinary sacrifice.

My grandson knew none of that.

He simply saw firefighters.

And perhaps there is something profoundly beautiful in that simplicity. Before a child understands sacrifice, he can learn gratitude. Before he can comprehend history, he can recognize the people who protect others.

The photograph captures that moment for our family, but its meaning extends beyond us. It brings together those who gave their lives, those who serve today and a child who represents the generation that will inherit their example.

The legacy of September 11 is therefore not preserved only by looking backward. It lives in the people who continue to answer the call.

The young police officers now entering the NYPD may not have been born when the towers fell. The firefighters serving today may know that day primarily through the memories of those who came before them. Yet they have accepted the responsibility of serving in institutions forever changed by September 11.

They are not replacing those who were lost.

They are carrying their torch.

And that brings Never Forget into the present. It means remembering what happened, honoring those who gave their lives and recognizing the people who have accepted the responsibility of carrying their legacy forward. It also means making sure that those protectors do not have to carry the burdens of service alone.

The greatest tribute to those who gave their lives on September 11 is not simply to remember how they died. It is to remember why they lived, what they stood for and what they gave to the communities they served.

Then, when we see the protectors standing before us today, we should be able to say—not merely in words, but through our actions:

We see you. Your service matters. And we will carry one another.

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