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The Tale of Two Cops: Courageous Optimism vs. Pessimistic Cowardice

Being prepared for the moment will change the outcome of your decisions

October 8, 2026
byDavid Berez
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In modern law‑enforcement training, “Courageous Optimism” refers to the disciplined, confident mindset that allows officers to act decisively and appropriately under stress. Its opposite, “Pessimistic Cowardice,” describes the collapse of preparedness, confidence, and tactical discipline that leads to fear‑driven or reckless decisions. These concepts aren’t moral judgments — they’re professional frameworks used to understand how mindset and training shape outcomes.

In the past month, two officer‑involved shootings made headlines in the New York and Philadelphia regions. Both incidents are tragic. Both are captured on body‑camera video. And both are receiving very different public reactions.

The first occurred in suburban Pennsylvania, where an officer responded to a homeowner’s report of a suspicious person attempting to enter their house. When the officer arrived, he confronted the man and ultimately shot him dead. The second unfolded in the heart of Times Square, where officers encountered a woman suspected of stabbing two strangers, killing one. She threatened officers with large knives, and after attempts at de‑escalation and less‑lethal force failed, one officer fired two rounds, stopping the threat.

The Pennsylvania officer is now criminally charged, though the case has received limited media attention. The NYPD officers are being praised by their leadership yet criticized online. Both encounters are well documented. The differences lie in the officers’ actions — and their preparation.

In Pennsylvania, the officer responded to what appeared to be a possible home invasion. He later reported that the individual aggressively approached him, causing him to fear for his life. The body‑camera footage shows something very different: a highly intoxicated college student, hands raised, speaking calmly, trying to find his way home. The officer fired without a clear threat. The discrepancy between the report and the video is stark and deeply troubling.

There may be an explanation for the discharge itself — not an excuse, but an explanation. The investigation will determine the facts, but certain questions naturally arise. Was the officer’s trigger finger properly indexed, or was it already on the trigger? Why was his weapon pointed at a man who had not yet posed a threat? Was he startled because he lacked the confidence that comes from regular, realistic, high‑stress training? Did an environmental factor cause a sympathetic trigger response?

Physical conditioning also matters. Officers who maintain fitness often carry a confidence that they can handle physically demanding encounters. Did this officer doubt his ability to control a non‑compliant subject? Did he fear he could not chase the man if he ran? Did he have the verbal skills and composure to de‑escalate?

There is no indication the officer intended to kill anyone that day. But intention is not the standard. Recklessness is. And recklessness can grow from years of insufficient preparation — physically, mentally, and tactically. He will live with the consequences of that lack of preparedness for the rest of his life.

Contrast that with New York. Officers confronted a woman who had reportedly stabbed two people, killing one — a young married mother with an Ivy League education and a promising career. The suspect had a documented history of mental illness. When officers found her, they attempted de‑escalation. When that failed, they attempted a Taser. When that failed, and she swung the knives with lethal intent, the officers created distance, bought time, drew their weapons, and one officer used deadly force to stop the threat. Their actions were consistent with training and policy, executed in one of the most crowded, chaotic environments in America.

After the shots, officers immediately rendered aid.

These two incidents illustrate a fundamental truth: preparedness shapes outcomes. Training, fitness, confidence, and discipline matter. They matter in the split second when a decision must be made. And they matter in the years leading up to that moment.

One officer appears to have been unprepared — physically, mentally, and tactically — and a young man died. Another set of officers were prepared, and they stopped a violent attack that had already claimed a life.

Courage is not the absence of fear. It is the presence of competence.


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David Berez

David Berez

David Berez has dedicated his life to building safer communities and serving others. After starting his public service at age 14 as a volunteer EMT, he interned with the New York City Medical Examiner’s Officer following graduation from college and then became a Police Officer. During his law enforcement career with the East Windsor Police Department in New Jersey, he has served the public in many capacities, including: Primary Officer-In-Charge, Field Training Officer, the elite Pro-Active Squad, Bike Patrol Officer, DARE Instructor, Evidence Technician, Drug Recognition Expert (DRE), and multiple detachments to the Investigative Services for Special Assignments. David is a court-recognized Expert Witness in multiple jurisdictions for his knowledge and expertise in drug-related DUI cases. David is a lifelong learner and holds a Master's in Positive Psychology (MAPP19) from the University of Pennsylvania, a B.A. in Social Sciences from Hofstra University with a concentration in Criminal Justice, and is a graduate of the Ocean County Police Academy, Class #72. He was trained as a Drug Recognition Expert in 2007 and served in that capacity until 2019, when he retired from active duty. David is also a trained Emergency Manager and served as the OEM Coordinator in Hopewell, NJ from 2021 to 2023. David is a certified Resiliency Program Officer and Master Resiliency Trainer who works with others to live a life of purpose and supports LEOs and veterans who are suffering with their own mental health and career transitions. He is a facilitator with Resilient Minds on the Front Lines and is a consultant for the State of New Jersey’s Resiliency Program. David is a lead facilitator, mentor and Storyteller with The Power of Our Story and has been a featured guest on many podcasts. David is an internationally published writer on topics of Law Enforcement, mental health and current events. David’s book was published in September 2023. The book is titled, A Resilient Life: A Cops Journey in Pursuit of Purpose. He is also the author of a chapter in Wounds to Wisdom: Healing through Veteran and First Responder Narratives.

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